Fantastic reads from around the web

by Lesley on July 31, 2015 · 1 comment

in feel good friday

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“I’m not sure what I’m supposed to say —is there a right thing to say?—but I call her back from a gas station in Oregon and the tears come flooding out when she answers. This little fleeting baby, tinier than any fruit or nut, has the power to crush us both. I am considering the could-have-beens, and mourning the moments we won’t have. I wanted this baby so badly for her. I wanted her baby so badly for me.

That night, curled up on her brown leather couches with toddler board books scattered at our feet, we cry together. She makes me promise not to feel guilty, and I make her promise to tell me if I say anything insensitive. As we navigate new territory in our friendship, I wonder how this night will be marked. Is this when we draw closer or farther from one another?”

—from when your friend miscarries and you don’t, my own submission to Coffee + Crumbs this month

“Our schools do amazing things with our children. And they are, in a way, teaching moral standards when they ask students to treat one another humanely and to do their schoolwork with academic integrity. But at the same time, the curriculum sets our children up for doublethink. They are told that there are no moral facts in one breath even as the next tells them how they ought to behave.” from Why our children don’t think there are moral facts in the New York Times

“For a show that encourages 14-person dates and the temporary negotiation of a lifestyle that could be best described as G-rated swinging, the whole shebang is awfully precious when it comes to the fact that sometimes, some of these people have sex with each other.” —Sex and the Single Churl: Another Bachelorette Finale Gets Weird from NPR

“Choose, instead, to read it as the story of a hero we’ve known since her childhood, a fellow sojourner learning what it means to swipe away the tin gods of her youth and to find a voice brave enough to speak up for equality and courageous enough to keep loving those who disagree. If ever there was one I’d want next to me on this wobbly path, it surely would be Miss Jean Louise Finch.” from Why you should still read “Go Set a Watchman

“Briggs said the nursing home residents did a “complete transformation in the presence of the children.” She told ABC, “moments before the kids came in, sometimes the people seemed half alive, sometimes asleep. It was a depressing scene. As soon as the kids walked in for art or music or making sandwiches for the homeless or whatever the project that day was, the residents came alive.” —This is what happens when you put a preschool in a nursing home (BRILLIANT, right?)

“We decided to re-create our own swimsuit photo shoot on the beach in Malibu. We each chose a model and then tried to re-create her pose. We think it’s very important for women of all different shapes, sizes, and colors to rock these bathing suits and give an accurate depiction of what a beach body really is. So that’s what we did.” —We tried on Victoria’s Secret Bathing Suits and This is What Happened

Happy (almost) weekend! We are madly packing today for a week long vacation to celebrate our 10 year anniversary, without our kids! I can hardly believe it. Talk to you when I get back.

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marisaloper
marisaloper

ok - your coffee and crumbs post was heartbreaking and so so beautifully redemptive, all at the same time. loved it! and loved all your other reads too (wouldn't it be so cool to put preschools/day cares in nursing homes everywhere?!). hope you have an amazing week and rest after your move!