Thursday Thoughts: Filled to the Brim

by Lesley on September 13, 2012 · 2 comments

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“All her instinct as a woman—the eternal nourisher of children, of men, of society—demands that she give. Her time, her energy, her creativeness drain out into these channels if there is any chance, any leak. Traditionally we are taught, and instinctively we long, to give where it is needed and immediately. Eternally, woman spills herself away in driblets to the thirsty, seldom being allowed the time, the quiet, the peace, to let the pitcher fill up to the brim.” Anne Morrow Lindberg, Gift from the Sea

I think this quote is as true today as it was many years ago when Anne wrote it. And, it goes nicely with my whole work life balance theme, wouldn’t you say?

Question: can you relate to this quote? Do you feel like you’ve been taught to give of yourself before taking care of yourself? When is one appropriate over the other? 

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Randi
Randi

It is so important to try to find that balance, but oh so hard! Thanks for sharing that great quote.

kelsey
kelsey

My husband and I have a policy of priorities that is: God, self, spouse, children, etc. The "self" comes before spouse and children for health purposes only. Our thought process is that if we don't take care of ourselves, we can't successfully take care of others. Please note: this rarely has to come in to play. When my baby cries in the morning I (of course) go to her before I eat breakfast or get myself ready. Her survival needs come first. But if Eric is really stressed, I will recommend that he get out on a bike ride before he spends the rest of the night with me. I know that his mind is in a better place when he's taken care of himself (quiet time, eating right, exercise) before giving of himself to me or Rooney.